An estimated 7 million (11.4%) of American children aged 3 to 17 years old have been diagnosed with ADHD, per a 2022 national survey of data from parents.
Still, there are a lot of unknowns surrounding ADHD. These misconceptions can impact the self-esteem and learning experiences of those who struggle with the condition. Here are some of the most common misconceptions about ADHD, and how they can hurt kids.
ADHD equals laziness
Many people may see a child refusing to do their schoolwork or household chores as lazy or unmotivated. However, they are often working much harder than their peers. ADHD makes it much more difficult for them to stay on task, and when their struggles are misunderstood, they may want to give up altogether.
The reality is that our systems reward output and not effort. Schools and households often measure success by timelines and finished work. However, it is easy for kids with ADHD who have trouble efficiently completing tasks to fall short, and for adults around them to assume that they must not be trying.
Kids will grow out of ADHD
Some people assume that ADHD is just a phase, and children will outgrow it once they reach their teen years and adulthood. However, ADHD is not a maturity issue, and many people who have it as children will continue to struggle with it beyond their youth. Even though their symptoms may change and they may learn how to manage their condition better, ADHD does not disappear with age, and they still deserve tools and resources.
ADHD is just about hyperactivity
Many people associate ADHD with hyperactivity, and that children who have ADHD will be bouncing off the walls. However, ADHD can present itself in different forms, and children who have it are not always necessarily hyper. It can show up as daydreaming, forgetfulness, and difficulty following instructions. Children with ADHD who aren’t overly hyper can easily be overlooked, and they may never get the resources they need.
Help is Available
When kids with ADHD are misunderstood, they often hear things like, “Try harder,” and “Why can’t you just focus?” Instead, they deserve support and guidance.
Our licensed therapists at Suffolk Counseling Services are here to listen. If your child is struggling with ADHD, contact us today to set them up with the support they deserve.
